Comments on: Therapy Notes: Intimacy http://byflutter.com/?p=580 Dark and Divine Wed, 08 Sep 2010 09:59:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: cathy http://byflutter.com/?p=580&cpage=1#comment-11514 cathy Sun, 01 Jun 2008 21:50:23 +0000 http://byflutter.com/?p=580#comment-11514 Fear is so paralyzing, isn't it? If only I had a wheelchair! Fear is so paralyzing, isn’t it?
If only I had a wheelchair!

]]> By: Bob http://byflutter.com/?p=580&cpage=1#comment-11291 Bob Fri, 23 May 2008 13:06:32 +0000 http://byflutter.com/?p=580#comment-11291 the key is - that The Boy already knows this, he already feels this, all you have to do is formally acknowledge it to him. there is this courage in you, I know it. I've seen it here. You can do this. the key is – that The Boy already knows this, he already feels this, all you have to do is formally acknowledge it to him.

there is this courage in you, I know it. I’ve seen it here. You can do this.

]]> By: Amy Y http://byflutter.com/?p=580&cpage=1#comment-11214 Amy Y Tue, 20 May 2008 17:27:42 +0000 http://byflutter.com/?p=580#comment-11214 PS ~ I never read through everyone else's comments until after I've posted my own... and often find great minds think alike? But it looks like I'm a big fat copy cat. Though I don't know that I'd have found anything more original to say, anyway. How is that lemonade coming along? Hopefully things are better by now. PS ~ I never read through everyone else’s comments until after I’ve posted my own… and often find great minds think alike? But it looks like I’m a big fat copy cat. Though I don’t know that I’d have found anything more original to say, anyway.

How is that lemonade coming along? Hopefully things are better by now.

]]> By: Amy Y http://byflutter.com/?p=580&cpage=1#comment-11213 Amy Y Tue, 20 May 2008 17:25:06 +0000 http://byflutter.com/?p=580#comment-11213 I think, by now, he knows what he is getting into with you. He is still here... still willing, able and ready to be what you need him to be. To help you carry your burden and find a way to let it go. He is there, with you, by choice. Because he loves you and he wants to be with you. Because he deserves you. And you deserve him. I think, by now, he knows what he is getting into with you. He is still here… still willing, able and ready to be what you need him to be. To help you carry your burden and find a way to let it go. He is there, with you, by choice. Because he loves you and he wants to be with you. Because he deserves you. And you deserve him.

]]> By: Queen of the Mayhem http://byflutter.com/?p=580&cpage=1#comment-11175 Queen of the Mayhem Mon, 19 May 2008 22:10:54 +0000 http://byflutter.com/?p=580#comment-11175 I sometimes wonder if one day Mr. Mayhem is going to grow tired of my high maintenance ways and more on to greener pastures.....but then I remember how much it would cost him to leave me.....and I feel much better! (hee-hee) I am such a romantic! :) Seriously......you must be doing something right.....he is still hanging around! I sometimes wonder if one day Mr. Mayhem is going to grow tired of my high maintenance ways and more on to greener pastures…..but then I remember how much it would cost him to leave me…..and I feel much better! (hee-hee)

I am such a romantic! :)

Seriously……you must be doing something right…..he is still hanging around!

]]> By: Defiantmuse http://byflutter.com/?p=580&cpage=1#comment-11173 Defiantmuse Mon, 19 May 2008 20:27:52 +0000 http://byflutter.com/?p=580#comment-11173 "Fear is a natural reaction to moving closer to the truth" - Pema Chodron. one of my favorite quotes. ever. “Fear is a natural reaction to moving closer to the truth” – Pema Chodron.

one of my favorite quotes. ever.

]]> By: chanda http://byflutter.com/?p=580&cpage=1#comment-11169 chanda Mon, 19 May 2008 19:58:54 +0000 http://byflutter.com/?p=580#comment-11169 Im curious, are you afraid to let the boy 100% in because you are afraid he will not be able to handle it all and leave? I can understand that fear, but here's what Im thinking. He's been around for a long time, and has probably seen more than you intended, and maybe you've unknowingly let him in more than you think. Either way, he's been through a lot with you, seen a lot of you, and has loved you the entire time. He's still there. Im curious, are you afraid to let the boy 100% in because you are afraid he will not be able to handle it all and leave? I can understand that fear, but here’s what Im thinking. He’s been around for a long time, and has probably seen more than you intended, and maybe you’ve unknowingly let him in more than you think. Either way, he’s been through a lot with you, seen a lot of you, and has loved you the entire time. He’s still there.

]]> By: Lisa b http://byflutter.com/?p=580&cpage=1#comment-11164 Lisa b Mon, 19 May 2008 14:51:59 +0000 http://byflutter.com/?p=580#comment-11164 Amazing. Your Instigating Shit Head rocks. You know mine said something like that to me - that she was sure to disappoint me as others have and so I almost broke up with her, but I need her. Not because I am as freed with her as you are with the ISH, but because I think I need to be. Amazing. Your Instigating Shit Head rocks.
You know mine said something like that to me – that she was sure to disappoint me as others have and so I almost broke up with her, but I need her. Not because I am as freed with her as you are with the ISH, but because I think I need to be.

]]> By: krista http://byflutter.com/?p=580&cpage=1#comment-11152 krista Mon, 19 May 2008 04:10:53 +0000 http://byflutter.com/?p=580#comment-11152 Similar to what your professional told you, someone once told me fear stands for this: F: False E: Expectations A: Appearing R: Real Similar to what your professional told you, someone once told me fear stands for this:

F: False
E: Expectations
A: Appearing
R: Real

]]> By: qt http://byflutter.com/?p=580&cpage=1#comment-11151 qt Mon, 19 May 2008 04:07:21 +0000 http://byflutter.com/?p=580#comment-11151 It is scary, but most of life is, you know? It is scary, but most of life is, you know?

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